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​blog: You'll Never Be Quite the Same

How old do you feel?

10/19/2019

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​           I object to the question, “How old do you feel?” A recent NY Times article by Emily Laber-Warren did an in-depth exploration of subjective age versus biological age, as if they are two distinct things.
            I am 59. I feel 59. Some days I feel 59 and terrible. My joints creak, my back aches, and I sigh reluctantly at the prospect of putting my socks on. Other days I feel 59 and vital. I want to climb a mountain, get 18 chores done in an afternoon, have a party. Frankly, it wasn’t that different when I was 29, and I expect (hope) 79 won’t be too far off either. Everyone, every age, has high and low days, high and low stretches. There are many things about being 59 that are preferable to 29, and surely 79 will hold its own treasures. Life’s value goes beyond the ability to run fast or do push-ups.
            Sometimes I wonder if pregnancy helps women accustom to periods of physical limitation. There are things I can’t do any more. So what? I can do other things. That’s life, right? And maybe I’ll be able to do them again some day, if whatever current obstacle resolves over time. Or maybe not. That’s okay too.
            The truest thing I read in Laber-Warren’s article was the prevalence of “inner ageism.” As a society, we resist and disdain aging. Why? Is it all about the fear of dying? The worship of youth? I say “phooey” to both. Embrace the journey, or you’ll miss the best parts. 
 
My 60th year in 60,000 words
Day 53 : 257 words, TOTAL = 8085; 51,915 remaining

 
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Lois Wood
10/19/2019 10:23:24 pm

Robin — You are a wise woman. You approach just about everything very positively. I have learned so much from you. Thank you!

With my love, as always ... Nana

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robin
10/20/2019 07:34:15 pm

Thanks, Nana! I've learned from you too. Aren't we lucky?

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Sue Baumgardner link
10/22/2019 05:42:47 pm

Most days, I feel my age. Yes. But nights are another thing. I'm often ageless and weightless in my flights of fancy. You are correct, Robin ~ we must 'Embrace the journey, or you'll miss the best part." ;)
PS I love how you always seem to make you subject matter so commonly personal. Always makes me relate it to my own experience. <3

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robin
10/22/2019 06:26:02 pm

Sue - I love "ageless and weightless in my flights of fancy." Yes - in dreams we are truly timeless.

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    Robin Clifford Wood is an award-winning author, poet, and writing teacher.  She lives  in central Maine with her husband, loves to be outdoors, and enjoys ever-expanding horizons through her children, grandchildren, and granddogs.

    To read about the "60th year in 60,000 words" challenge, go to the August 27th blog post. 
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